Too busy? That's because it's not a priority.
Let's be real - we find time for things that matter.
I was talking to an acquaintance a few days ago and the question came up:
What is something that you’ve always wanted to do but somehow haven’t done yet?
Skydiving, he said.
Well, what’s stopping you? I asked.
I’m too busy, he said.
I’m working on my Masters; I have to think about things at work; I’m training for a marathon; I’ve just started my side hustle — I’m just too busy to think about going skydiving. I don’t have time.
So you don’t have time to help me do a survey for an hour?, I asked.
He laughed, incredulous. Of course not.
What if I told you that a dear loved one is in the hospital, and they will die — unless you spend an hour to complete my magical survey that will save their life? I asked.
His mirth faded as he contemplated my hypothetical situation.
Giving me a hard look, he said: Of course, I’d do the survey.
So somehow you’ve managed to find an hour of time, where previously you didn’t have an hour to spare. Magic? I questioned.
He raised his hands, conceding defeat.
Oftentimes, we…
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